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This sounds gross but for some women who are concerned about this, this post might come very helpful.

Last month, during my period, a fibroid tissue passed. At first, I was startled because I was scared that some thing that's part of my organs was not suppose to come out. However, after doing some research online, I realized it's most likely a fibroid tissue.

I didn't take a picture of it but it was whitish and looked like clumps of big cells bundled together. It had fibrous strings around it as well. If I were to guess it was almost a quarter in diameter. It got me thinking: if I had one that just passed, maybe there are more in there. Upon doing more research, it says the a third of women have this. Some also use the term "benign tumor" as a replacement for fibroid tissue. 

Why Did All of a Sudden a Fibroid Tissue Came Out on Its Own?
I was wondering this for awhile afterwards. Why did a fibroid tissue come out on its own and kind of got rid of itself? I've changed my diet considerably in the last 6 months after finding out that I have high cholesterol levels after some bloodwork came back. So, I lost 10 pounds within a few months, ate less meat, tripled my vegetable and fruit intakes and ate less processed food. I wonder if all of the healthier eating habits helped get rid of a fibroid tissue? There's one other thing that the doctor's office suggested that I also do and it is to work out. I haven't been able to work out during this pandemic and it's because I don't like doing online work out videos or working out at home. I enjoy going to the gym but my gym shut down during the pandemic, like closed for business for good. 

However, after this fibroid thing came out, I'm going to have to try harder and get a work out routine going. I want to get rid of any more if there are still some in there. I read online that you can get an ultrasound to see if you have fibroid tissues in your uterus. A gynecologist could order an ultrasound for you. I haven't done that but it's helpful to think that I can find out how many I really have.

Fibroid Tissues is a Women's Problem in the Uterus
I've also read that sometimes they diagnose endometriosis mistakenly when it's fibroid tissue from what I've researched and it could affect your menstrual cycle. Stress, bad eating habits and hormones can increase the growth of fibroid tissues so this is an instance where the problems are definitely happening internally where we can't see.

So stay healthy, don't hold a grudge and practice healthier habits!

I have just found out from Instagram that Wengie has changed her name Wraya! I think it suits her and she is growing and evolving. I totally support her. You can just tell that she is super creative, a hard worker and revolutionary with her ideas. She has absolutely fantastic taste in everything!

She's at 2 million followers on IG now but I think we'll most likely see a surge shortly as she's launching new music under her new name Wraya. I'm expecting a more grown up and edgier type of music. I can't wait to hear it.

If you're reading this Wraya, I think you are an amazing person and make sure to take care of yourself. Hard work will pay off but you need to have the health to enjoy your successes and life. I'm rooting for you!

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If you saw my tiktok recently, then you'd know that I have been job searching. I've probably had over 10 interviews and 5 declined letters within a span of 4 months. For the other five, I assume they didn't want to bother telling me that I've been declined. It's been heartbreaking with each letter so I'm not mad at the no responses.

It is easy to blame others like they made the wrong decision or they don't know what they're missing but the straight truth is: it's me. I'm a terrible interviewee. Also, I need to get better on my sh*t. I'm interviewing for web development positions and it's hard because I just graduated from a coding bootcamp 4 months ago and many of them don't want to hire on noobs. They want someone with more experience in the development realm. Don't worry, they haven't seen my tiktok nor youtube channel because they don't know my handle or else, they'll definitely not hire a nut like me! 

Until I land a job, I'll work on getting better on what I need to do and getting some mentorship help. If you're job searching too, hang in there!

If you want to help me find a job and offer some tips, you can answer some of the questions about interviewing that I have asked on my YouTube. Starting with the first one.

PART 1: Do you agree with an advisor's tip to not mention about having kids in an interview?


PART 2: Do you agree with an advisor's tip to send a thank you email to your interviewer within 24 hours, even if you bombed the interviewer?

I don't know how accurate my scale is but I was shocked to find out that I'm now 123.2 lb. On February 23, 2021, I went to the doctor's to get some bloodwork done and they weighed me at 133.8 lb. I found out I had really high cholesterol 2 days after that doctor's visit and started fixing my diet right away. I'm eating less meat, more vegetables and fruit, less processed food like white bread, chips and sweets and substituting meat with beans and legumes, whenever I can. I also added fish to my diet more regularly.

About a couple of weeks after starting this diet, I lost about 3 or 4 pounds. I felt better, more limber and was breathing better too. I knew I was heading in the right direction. Because of my busy life, I can't fit in a work out yet but I hopefully will start being able to soon.

As per usual, every one weighs less in the morning so my current weight at 123.2 lb today is before eating breakfast. My goal was to weigh 120 lb by July and I think I'm going to reach that goal within the next month or so if I'm able to keep this healthy diet up. To be clear, this is a lifestyle change for me. Before, I was eating really unhealthy. I would eat fried chicken at least once every week, ate French fries like they're staple food and ate instant noodles and chips regularly. I was eating like a hormonal teenager all the time. It was bound to affect my health. I'm in my late 30s now and putting myself in check.

I do give myself a free day every once in a while. Thus far, within the last 6 weeks, I've eaten a greasy burger with garlic fries once, 1 bag of Asian instant noodles once and allowed myself to enjoy a mochi from my bokksu box a few times. 


My starting and current weight:
Feb 23, 2021: 133.80000197 lb (scale at doctor's office)
Today on April 5, 2021: 123.2 lb (scale at home)

Importantly, the doctor's office said I need to exercise regularly so that is the one thing I have not been able to do but have to start doing this month. What can I say, doctor's orders!

Yesterday, on Christmas night, I watched Wonder Woman 1984 from HBO Max. Since we were already subscribers for HBO, it allowed us to watch HBO Max without an extra fee. To find out that I could watch the new Wonder Woman movie and not had to pay more than we already have been for our monthly subscriptions was a gift!

I looked for my Wonder Woman leggings (from Forever 21 before they closed many of their shops) that I have been hoarding in my closet and wore them while watching it. It was awesome! I was in the best mood. I liked the movie and I'm so glad that I watched the movie without reading reviews online because that would've affected my first initial organic reaction to the movie. 

Without giving details about this movie, I'll tell you that I still liked this movie, even though the first one is still better. However, I'd watch this one over and over again and it would still make me happy!

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